Life is full of endings

Life is full of endings - the end of a relationship, the end of a job, the end of a chapter in our lives. These endings can be painful and difficult to navigate, but it's important to remember that they also make way for new beginnings.

 

When we're in the midst of an ending, it can be hard to see past the pain and loss. We may feel like we've lost a part of ourselves or that we'll never be able to move on. But as the saying goes, every ending is a new beginning.

 

New beginnings can take many forms. It could be a new job, a new relationship, or a new hobby. It could be a new perspective on life, a new way of looking at the world, or a new set of goals and aspirations.

 

Of course, new beginnings aren't always easy. They often require us to step outside of our comfort zones, to take risks, and to embrace the unknown. But they also bring with them a sense of excitement and possibility. They remind us that we're capable of change and growth, and that we have the power to shape our own lives.

 

So how can we embrace new beginnings when they come our way? One way is to stay open and curious. Instead of fearing the unknown, try approaching it with a sense of wonder and anticipation. Ask yourself: what could this new beginning bring into my life? What opportunities could it open up? What new experiences could I have?

 

Another way to embrace new beginnings is to focus on the present moment. When we're in the midst of a transition, it's easy to get caught up in the past or worry about the future. But by focusing on the present moment and taking things one step at a time, we can stay grounded and focused on what's happening right now.

 

While endings can be painful and difficult, they also make way for new beginnings. By embracing the unknown and staying open to new opportunities, we can navigate these transitions with grace and excitement. So the next time you're faced with an ending, remember that it's also a new beginning - and that the possibilities are endless.

 

 





Niki has worked in Child Protection, Family Law, Juvenile Justice and NDIS for over 19 years.  Having worked extensively with families, government departments, not for profits and privately owned large and small businesses, Niki understands the needs of families, the pressures of compliance, quality and sustainability, and the need to work smart, be resilient, and know who we work for and who we work with.

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Niki has trained staff and governments both nationally and internationally on child safeguarding and exploitation and established multimillion dollar government and non-government departments.  


Niki is a mum of 4 and a Grandma to 1 and lives in Adelaide with her husband of 25 years.

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